mtmd: support "frame merge" for qwen-vl-based models (#21858)

• feat: add video support for Qwen3.5

• various clean up

• revise the design

• fix llava-uhd case

• nits

• nits 2

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Co-authored-by: andrewmd5 [email protected]

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